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Four Main Causes Of Problems With The Human Spirit
Indications Of When Sin Has Deeply Affected The Human Spirit
Indications of when folly has overtaken the human spirit Dealing With Folly In The Human Spirit Indications of trauma having affected the human spirit
Dealing With People Whose Spirit Has
Been Affected By Trauma Other indications of spiritual attack on the human spirit include
The four main causes
of problems with the human spirit are – Sin, Folly, Trauma and Spiritual
Attack. Each of these can affect our most basic perceptions of ourselves,
life, others and God and lead to emotional discordance. By understanding
these four causes we will be able to frame a wise and appropriate response
as we minister the grace of God.
All of us sin but this is different. This is much deeper. Here the sin has got right down to the deepest level of the personality and gained a stronghold. In these cases the human spirit itself has been captured or defiled by a particular sin. Pride or rebellion has become deeply ingrained in the person’s nature and now affects their entire outlook on life. When our own inner spirit has become allied with either of these sins the only cure is deep repentance, confession and restoration. God repeatedly engineers painful circumstances in our lives until we realize the great hold such sins can have on us. A third and special case of this is where the sin is the sin of unbelief concerning Christ in which case repentance and faith leads to conversion. Christian approaches that are repentance based and helpful here include: Jay E. Adams' Nouthetic Counseling, and Alcoholics Anonymous.
Indications Of When Sin Has Deeply Affected The Human Spirit : ·
Where there is a deep love of,
or blindness to, clearly and obviously sinful behavior such as that in the
sin lists in Paul's epistles. ·
Celebration of lawlessness,
defiance of rules and authority. Rebellion. ( 1John
3:4) ·
Glorying in unrighteous
scheming. (Prov 24:9) ·
A deep spiritual obstinacy.
Consistently knowing the right thing to do and refusing to do it. (James
4:17) · A faithless and violated conscience. Habitually doing things contrary to one's faith. (Romans 14:23) Dealing With Sins Of The Spirit: The course here is fairly well known. Awaken the person to their sin, then ask them to repent from their sin and to confess it to God and to make restoration where practical. Repentance involves a turning around from the wrong behavior or attitude to the right behavior or attitude. (Isaiah 55:7 NKJV) Let the wicked forsake his way, And the unrighteous man his thoughts; Let him return to the LORD, And He will have mercy on him; And to our God, For He will abundantly pardon. Wrong ways are to be forsaken and an unrighteous thought life is to be put aside. Sin is not just confessed, it is also left behind. Awakening the person to their sin may be a difficult process and may even require some confrontation by the elders of the church. This should not be done lightly and the proper procedure is outlined in Matthew 18.15-20. The seriousness with which the apostle Paul took church discipline and its severity is almost unknown in the modern church (see 1 Corinthians 5 and 2 Corinthians 12 & 13). Above all pray that the Holy Spirit will help you help the sinner and will provide both the conviction of sin and the grace and power for change.
They seem to need discipline combined with a sudden transforming work of God that corrects the spiritual damage at the root of their folly. Once the error in their spirit is corrected and wisdom flows a whole major aspect of their character can instantly change. There is frequently a moment of realization when light dawns and they say "how could I have been so dumb!". Among them are those having an errant spirit, a perverse spirit (Isaiah 19:14), a hasty spirit (Job 32:18), a sullen spirit (1 Kings 21:5), and an inappropriate spirit of jealousy (Numbers 5:14). Proverbs describes a range of foolish people such as the naïve, the young men seduced by a harlot, the unteachable fool, the lazy sluggard, the scoffer, the person wise in their own eyes and the boorish fool. For these people loving discipline, fervent believing prayer for wisdom (James 1:5), good scriptural teaching and high quality ongoing discipleship may help correct the error in their spirit. Christian approaches that have proved helpful here include: Neil T. Anderson's truth encounters and various discipleship strategies, church discipline and accountability groups. Many men's ministries specialize in this approach. Indications of when folly has overtaken the human spirit: ·
When the person consistently
makes unwise choices that are not so much "bad" as "just real dumb". They
are characterized by an almost total lack of insight about themselves,
their lifestyle and other people.. ·
Where they are naïve,
credulous, gullible or always falling in
love. ·
A deeply derisive attitude to
education, knowledge and learning and wisdom. ·
They constantly show off their
knowledge but do not listen to others and are quite
unteachable. ·
Foolish habits, erratic
behavior, impulsiveness, wild schemes, dreaming, loud inappropriate and
boorish behavior, lack of insight, poor
decisions. ·
The person does not set out to
be immoral but finds themselves being easily caught up in immoral
relationships or they seem unable to avoid bad
company. ·
Where a person is chronically
lazy, slack and disorganized and their life drifts from job to job and
failure to failure, when there is a great sense of wasted
potential. · Poor and very inappropriate communication such as boastfulness, an inability to listen or be corrected, hasty speech, quick displays of anger and provocation and little idea of how to be socially appropriate.
Dealing With Folly In The Human Spirit Wisdom is closely associated with the presence and teaching ministry of the Holy Spirit. Wisdom can be prayed for and is prayed for by Paul. James is quite specific in saying that a Christian can receive wisdom from God directly through prayer (James 1:5). This wisdom can be in ordinary daily things where wisdom may be lacking. An interesting passage that illustrates this is found in Isaiah 28: God guides and
instructs the farmer in the humble daily routines of farming. God is thus
concerned with our work as well as with our religion. It is His will for
us to have wisdom in all aspects of our lives. This confidence that God
loves to instruct His people should give us great hope when dealing with
foolish Christians. It gives us a solid basis for prayer when we ask Him
to give wisdom to those who lack it. He delights to do this and James says
He gives ‘without reproach”. (James 1:5-8)
Foolish Christians first need to realize they have been foolish. Once the light dawns they need to be encouraged to seek wisdom from God. Finally they need to learn the basic disciplines that will enable them to correct their folly in the light of their new wisdom. This process takes place best in a Christian community where accountability and discipleship are lovingly practiced without harshness or legalism. In such communities personal change is normal and others around them are also working on aspects of their character. Support groups, bible study groups, one to one discipleship sessions, counseling and
Christian communities
all provide good contexts for the correction of folly in the life of the
Christian. However awakening a
person to the fact that their behavior is foolish is not easy. Pain is the
great awakener as well as honest and true Christian friends who speak the
truth in love. One method that can
work is to get a person to write out in a journal the consequences of the
behavior you are trying to get them to correct.
Then get them to do a cost-benefit analysis. This has awakened many gamblers once they have honestly done a calculation of the cost of their habit. Some people know they
are foolish but have no idea how to change. If you want to lead someone
from folly to wisdom be prepared to provide careful, detailed step by step
instruction and modeling. Going from folly to wisdom involves learning and learning requires a good and patient teacher. Do not dump a whole heap of demands and ideas on people. Give them bite-sized bits of counseling homework and encourage every step of improvement. Wisdom can arrive from God in answer to godly believing prayer. When it does it sometimes comes in a rush, in a huge "Aha" moment the person sees what they should have seen all along and suddenly changes. This is good, but a good structure of discipleship and the careful systematic teaching of biblical truth can help those moments to occur with greater frequency.
This damage to the human spirit is far beyond the normal upsets of life and is a deep and personal wound such as those inflicted by rape, violent crime, death, divorce, deep injustice, cult involvement and torture. For these people there needs to be prayer ministry and an atmosphere of gentle encouragement. In some cases the damage may be so profound that the person has an "uncontrolled spirit" and is like a city with broken down walls - easily exploited, and easily manipulated. Such people will need much rebuilding of the walls and instructions in setting appropriate personal boundaries. For many damaged people the biblical truths that give hope and grace may need to be repeated often in an atmosphere of love, encouragement and healing prayer. Counselors operating in this area have to be especially gentle and caring and able to spend hours in healing prayer with a single client. Christian and Christian-compatible approaches that have proved helpful here include: Healing of the memories, inner healing. Indications of trauma having affected the human spirit: ·
A distinct event that
precipitated the problem. ·
Painful emotions such as grief,
bitterness and sorrow. ·
Flashbacks, problems with
memory. ·
The person is overwhelmed by
life, fearful, or consumed with anxiety. ·
The person indicates they feel
they are emotionally crippled and "lame". ·
The person communicates that
they are broken or damaged inside. ·
The person pulls away from life
and indicates a deep need for comfort and healing, space and privacy,
gentleness and restoration. ·
As you talk to someone you get
the sense that you are dealing with both an adult and a damaged child in
the same person. ·
Unusual reactions to normal
stimuli. A sense that the person is reacting inappropriately because some
wound is being touched.
Dealing With People Whose Spirit Has Been Affected By Trauma
How to Counsel Youth in Trauma? 1. Be supportive, understanding, loving and caring. Give the person lots of freedom. Let them be angry but don’t let them dwell too long on it. 2. Be extremely patient, do not condemn, do not censure. They are bruised and hurting. Remember "a bruised reed He will not break and a sputtering wick He will not extinguish." 3. Avoid strong emotion. A gentle quite retreat atmosphere is generally far more healing for trauma than a hyped up evangelistic meeting. There is so much strong emotion inside them that they are already overloaded emotionally. Part of healing is to decrease this overloaded emotional level. 4. Above all do not suggest to them how they may have been abused or attempt to recover memories. False memory syndrome induced by zealous counselors is very real and very damaging. 5. Where necessary help them seek justice. Empower them to go to the police and through the court system. Many Christians are uncomfortable with this but people need to feel supported and protected and that there is justice in the world. If the offender is hardened and unrepentant and a continuing risk to the community then that offender should not be protected by "gracious" Christians. 6. If they are agreeable pray for them and soak them in loving prayer. Do not expect or demand immediate miraculous outcomes. Just soak them in prayer and let them slowly come face to face with Jesus who heals them. Repeat as necessary. 7. Encourage them to seek God's Presence in prayer and worship. 8. Encourage them to express their feelings via art, acting, music, poetry, writing, pottery, crafts, gardening, keeping pets and other non-destructive outlets. 9. Don't argue but do gently correct false perspectives on life. Much of the continuing damage comes from believing untruths about God, self or others. These need to be gently shown to be false and the person shown who they are in Christ and in the loving eyes of God. 10. Give them lots and lots of time to heal and realize that recovery from trauma may happen in bits and pieces over many years. Don't feel it has to be fixed right now. Let God heal them in God's time. If you are someone
that feels that you may have a broken and damaged spirit do not sit alone
and try to heal yourself. You need grace and you need special people and
places that have a healing effect on the emotionally damaged. Ask the Lord
to lead you to the right people and places where you can find the grace
you need.
Problems Caused By Spiritual
Attack
Spiritual attacks can
be group into two categories: minor attacks which are generally
attacks on our mood, and major attacks that go deep into the spirit
and involve a major change in consciousness observable to others.
The classic mood attacks are the suddenly swinging moods of King Saul who was afflicted by an evil spirit. These dark and evil moods often accuse the person, others or God and produce hopelessness, despair and discouragement. They can also suddenly give rise to lurid and vivid temptations or can fuel abiding anger and cause an irrational "spirit of ill-will" to develop.
These moods have the following characteristics: ·
They come over the person
without warning. ·
They then control their
thinking and emotions for a while and take it in a negative
direction. ·
They leave suddenly when
rebuked in the name of Jesus ·
They sometimes can be assuaged
by Christian music such as when David played his psalms on the harp for
Saul.
Please note carefully the above mood "attacks" are not the same as "demon possession"! In mood attacks the attacking spiritual entity is external to the believer and is engaged in harassment of the believer through their thoughts and emotions. Other indications of spiritual attack on the human spirit include: ·
The sudden desire to give up
the ministry or the faith. ·
Dislike to the point of
hostility regarding the bible, prayer or communion.
·
Sharp painful feelings, doubts
from nowhere, accusations of God, self or others.
·
A floating seductive feeling
that takes over the consciousness and blots out
prayer. ·
Altered states of consciousness
in which sinful acts are performed. ·
The evident presence of an evil
spirit. Manifestations, voices etc. ·
A preoccupation with strange
doctrines or bizarre dietary practices. · Involvement in the occult, death metal music, pornography, drugs, or Eastern religion. Major attacks are where the consciousness of the person is greatly altered and it is evident that the person’s human spirit has been invaded in some way. A second personality or consciousness may take over the person and speak in a different voice or the person may suddenly enter a trance state (which is often rather sweet and seductive) and which obliterates all moral consciousness. In this trance state the person may perform sinful actions of which they later have reduced or blurry recollection. Dealing With Spiritual Attacks Here is a general
formula for dealing with minor spiritual attacks on the Christians
emotional life: ·
Become aware that it may be an
attack of the Devil. ·
Try and give it a name if you
can e.g. "a mood of deep discouragement". ·
Resist its effects on you and
say a firm "No' to its lies and suggestions. ·
If necessary counter its lies
with the truth of Scripture or just plain facts. When Elijah was deeply
discouraged and said "I alone am left" God just said "I have 7000 that
have not bowed the knee to Baal" (1 Kings
19). ·
Rebuke the harassing spirit
firmly in the name of Jesus with the spiritual authority you have as a
believer. (Ephesians 1:20, 2:6, Colossians 2:13-15, Matthew
11:11-13) ·
It should leave virtually
instantly. If it tries another attack later on - then rebuke it
again. ·
If it returns you may have
given ground to it by nurturing resentment or hatred, or actually liking
the vivid temptations or believing there might be some truth in the
accusations If this is the case then remove the ground the Devil is using
to afflict you by repenting of your wrong attitude and then exercising
forgiveness towards others. When deliverance is necessary? ·
When there is clear evidence of
an indwelling evil spirit. ·
These indications include
changes in personality such as a male person talking with a female voice
or vice versa. ·
They also include various
peculiar odors and bizarre manifestations that are quite uncharacteristic
of the person; a strong aversion to prayer and spiritual disciplines and
especially to communion and an attraction to unclean behavior.
Some people are overwhelmed by sinful obsessions and compulsions (unlike in obsessive-compulsive disorder where the obsessions are generally morally neutral acts such as hand-washing or locking up repeatedly) and unusual trance states where sinful acts are performed including a compulsion to suicide and dark obsessions. Before engaging in deliverance make sure you are aware of your authority in Christ over the demonic realm. See the following verses Luke 10:19, 1 John 5:18,19; Ephesians 1:20, 2:6, Colossians 2:13-15, Matthew 11:11-13, Hebrews 1:14, and 1 Corinthians 6:1-3.
They are not just angry words or swear words; they are acts of power in the spiritual real. Curses are mentioned over 200 times in Scripture, and were foundational to the Old Covenant (see Deuteronomy 28-30). God Himself was the first one to pronounce curses – on the earth, on Eve’s fertility and upon the serpent. Curses are not just a primitive superstition; they are spiritual pronouncements recorded in Scripture that profoundly affect the very structure of reality in some way. The world was created
by the word of God and is held together by the power of His Word (Genesis
1, Hebrews 1:1-3, Colossians 1:17-20). Thus God’s words can change
creation and Jesus’ curse caused the fig-tree, representing barren
The origin of blessings and curses is found in the book of Genesis. The first blessing is upon the living creatures, which were told to “be fruitful and multiply” (Genesis 1:22). When God made mankind He also blessed them saying “be fruitful and multiply” and added a third blessing “have dominion over” (Genesis 1:28). These three basic blessings of: “be fruitful”, “multiply” and “have dominion over” form the basis of all future blessings. Fruitfulness is the ability to joyfully express your inner nature and feel that which you are doing is truly creative, worthwhile and significant. Its opposite is pain in creation especially barrenness. Multiplication is exponential increase - increasing as in 2, 4, 8, 16, 32, 64, 128 not additively as in 2 , 4, 6, 8, 10, Multiplication is a huge increase in productivity for a small increase in effort. Its opposite is frustration and futility. Putting in a huge effort for little or no reward. Authority to rule over means dignity, headship, authority, the ability to be ascendant, to be the head not the tail. Its opposite is being humbled, to eat the dirt, to be crushed and humiliated, to be unable to rise. In Genesis 3 we see the first curses in operation. The woman is made unfruitful, the man is made to work in futility and the serpent is told he will eat the dirt. The three things that make life good are reversed. Life becomes unbearable. Thus when we are cursed we find life very difficult indeed. No matter how hard we try to rise we never quite make it. Time and time we get to the brink of success only to have it snatched away. Curses can affect health, particularly reproductive health. They can affect earning power and they can affect our ability to have authority and command over our lives and people who are cursed may have to endure life-long humiliation. On one hand we do want to acknowledge the reality of curses and to deal with them and to break them on the other hand we do not want to become overly superstitious and fearful seeing curses everywhere. If your life is affected by sterility, barrenness, constant lack of success and failure to gain any sort of ascendancy no matter how hard you try then a curse may be in operation. If you think this may be the case then do some research on your life and family history and take the matter before the Lord. The good news is that
breaking curses can be surprisingly easy for Christians because we dwell
under the protection of the blood of Jesus Christ. Curses have greatest
power where the person who has been cursed has committed some great act of
wickedness such as involvement in the occult. The reverse is also true,
curses have little or no power over a righteous person and Proverbs
says that a curse without cause will not alight on the head of a righteous
man.
Scripture reveals a number of ways in which we can break curses and/or be protected from them ·
Live a righteous life free from
major sin and acts of injustice. Abide in the righteousness of Christ
where no curse can penetrate. (Malachi 4:6, Proverbs 26:2, Romans
8). ·
Put on the full armor of God in
Ephesians 6 :10-21 which is actually armor against spiritual attack.
·
God is able to turn a curse
into a blessing. He did this when Balak tried to get Baalam to curse
·
Understand and plead the fact
that Christ has taken all the curses due to us when He became a curse on
the cross (Galatians 3:10-14). In Christ that ground for curses to succeed
against us is removed because on the cross Jesus became a curse for us and
took all the cursing that may have been due to us due to our violation of
God's laws. ·
Break associations with the
sins of parents and ancestors particularly those involving the occult or
idolatry. Exodus 34:6, 7 says such sins bring a curse "to the third and
fourth generation". We have to break ties with such sins by not
participating in occult ceremonies that may be traditional and even
confessing such involvement of your parents and ancestors and forsaking
them in a prayer of renunciation to God. The essential thing is to make a
clear break with the familial sin in your own heart, mind and spirit.
·
Get rid of objects that bring a
curse particularly objects associated with pagan worship, idolatry or the
occult. For instance if we have our Grandmothers pack of tarot cards we
need to get rid of them. (Deuteronomy 7:25,26) The Ephesians converts were
moved by the Holy Spirit to burn their magic scrolls and occult objects.
(Acts 19:18-20). ·
Do not engage in secretive or
dishonest sins that you think you can get away with unobserved. In
Deuteronomy 27: 15-26 certain sins are singled out as bringing a curse
notably the making of idols, incest, bestiality, treating parents with
contempt, injustice against migrants, widows, the disabled or the poor,
hiring a contract killer, and moving your neighbors landmark or boundary
stone. Most of these are crimes that
would never be tried in court because of the secret nature of the crimes,
the lack of two or three eye witnesses willing to testify or the
difficulty of proving of the case such as the “my word against yours’ case
of the boundary stone. The curse was God’s way of making sure that such
secret crimes did not go unpunished. People knew that if they did these
things God would repay. Even in the New Testament God is referred to as
the one who punishes those who defile the marriage bed. (1 Thessa 4:4-6,
Hebrews 13:4). If you have done any of the things in the above list then
repentance, restoration and an earnest appeal to God for mercy would be a
good starting point in breaking the curse over your
life. ·
Curses can alight where there
is deep abiding injustice against an ethnic group. Saul’s bloodthirsty
massacre of the Gibeonites, which lay uncorrected for years, later
resulted in a curse and a famine in the time of David. (2 Samuel 21:1
NKJV) Now there was a famine in the days of David for three years, year
after year; and David inquired of the LORD. And the LORD answered, "It is
because of Saul and his bloodthirsty house, because he killed the
Gibeonites." David broke this curse by going
back to the offended ethnic group, humbly asking how they would like to
see justice done and then enacting it. After ten of Saul’s sons were hung
the famine ended. (2 Samuel 21:1-14). ·
Slackness in ministry can
result in a curse. The priests in Malachi were under a curse because of
their slackness in God's work (Malachi 2:2) and the prophet Jeremiah cries
out "cursed be he who is slack in doing the Lord's work (Jeremiah
48:10). If you are in ministry do the work of the Lord diligently and obey
His specific instructions if you have been given such instructions.
· Put God’s interests ahead of your own. In the book of Haggai God puts a curse on the nation (Haggai 1:5-11, 2:16,17 )for being self-centered and neglectful of their duty to God. The curse is removed when the people obey the prophets and lay the foundation on the Lord's temple (Haggai 2:18,19) and a blessing is given instead. There are over 200
verses on curses in Scripture and the above list just touches on some of
the main causes and their remedies. Basically a curse can only alight on
an area that God has already judged as being worthy of a curse – such as
incest , idolatry or murder. Most curses generally last only 3-4
generations though some have lasted since Creation. Repentance from sin,
breaking ties with the occult and taking refuge in Christ who has become a
curse for us are the main strategies we can use to break curses. Part of
this is putting on the whole armor of God, which is designed to protect us
from curses leveled against us in the course of spiritual warfare
(Ephesians 6:10-18). When the curse is lifted then the human spirit that
has been affected by the curse and been bowed down with pain, confusion
and futility will be quickly healed. The person will recover and emotional
normality should soon follow. This page was
adapted from: John Edmiston “The Book: Biblical EQ Page 66-75” to read or
download the free eBook go to: http://aibi.gospelcom.net/ebooks/BEQ/
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